Have you ever wondered why bidets are a bathroom staple in countries like Japan, France, and Italy but seem almost exotic in the US? It's fascinating how these clever fixtures have been an integral part of daily life elsewhere for centuries.
Bidet toilets, or washlets, as they're sometimes called, are slowly gaining popularity in American households....and for good reason. As we explore options to make our homes more accessible and comfortable, especially as we age, bidets offer a practical solution that combines toilet hygiene, comfort and convenience.
What is a Bidet Toilet?
Like a power washer (on gentle mode), bidets provide cleansing following toilet use. A bidet toilet combines the functionality of a traditional toilet with the cleansing benefits of a bidet. Celebrities like Will Smith and Howie Mandel have sung their praises, and it's easy to see why once you've tried one.
Historically, bidets originated in 17th-century France as standalone fixtures used alongside traditional toilets. Over time, they've evolved into various forms including standalone units, bidet seat attachments that retrofit onto existing toilets, and fully integrated models that seamlessly blend both functions. Each type offers its own set of features tailored to different needs and preferences.

How Bidet Toilets Work
So, how does this bathroom marvel operate? At its core, a bidet toilet uses a stream of water to cleanse after using the restroom - simple yet effective. You might compare it to the undercarriage feature at the car wash that removes the road grime that you know is there but can’t see beneath your car.
Most models allow you to adjust water temperature and pressure to suit your comfort level. Some let you customize the positioning of the spray for optimal cleanliness.
But wait... there's more....and this is where it gets really good! Many advanced models come equipped with additional luxuries like air drying (say goodbye to toilet paper), heated seats (perfect for those chilly mornings), remote controls for ease of use, aromatherapy options for odor mitigation, night lights for safety during late-night visits, and self-cleaning functions to keep maintenance minimal.
Types of Bidets
Traditional Freestanding Bidet
These are wall or floor-mounted porcelain basins which are usually positioned next to the toilet. Users straddle the bowl to be cleaned by water spray from a stationary nozzle or hand-held hose.
These are not nearly as user-friendly (especially for older adults and those with mobility limitations) as the next two types of bidets since hovering over the bowl is tricky.
Bidet Toilet Combo
In a bidet toilet, the bidet and toilet functions are combined for a more seamless fixture. These models are more expensive since there are two fixtures in one. If you're planning to replace your toilet, consider this option.
Bidet Toilet Seat Attachment
These are the most versatile and replace a traditional toilet seat, adding the functionality of a bidet to a standard toilet. Bidet toilet attachments can easily be removed and taken to a new home or installed on another toilet.

Bidet Features and Options
- Heated Seats: Essential for comfort as we age due to thinning skin and reduced circulation.
- Adjustable Water Temperature: Enhances comfort and relaxation.
- Adjustable Water Jets and Nozzles: Offers customizable pressure and positioning for safe and effective cleaning.
- Air Dryer: Eliminates or reduces the need for toilet paper or air drying.
- Deodorizer: Options include carbon filtration, aromatherapy or fragrance dispensers to manage odors.
- Automatic Lid: Provides a touch-free, sanitary experience, ideal for those with limited strength or coordination.
- Night Lights: Built-in sensors offer convenience for nighttime use.
- Remote Control: Simplifies operation, available in wired or wireless models.
- Self-Cleaning Nozzles: Improves hygiene with retractable, self-cleaning jets.
- Electric vs. Non-Electric: Electric models require a GFCI outlet; non-electric rely on water pressure.

Bidet Benefits
Improved Hygiene and Comfort
Think about it….would you wash your hands with just dry paper? Probably not. A similar principle applies here - water provides superior cleanliness compared to paper alone especially since you’re dealing with an area that you can’t even see.
For seniors or anyone with sensitive skin conditions, the gentle cleaning action of a bidet is not only more effective but also kinder on delicate areas.
Increased Independence and Dignity
One significant advantage is how bidets empower users with physical limitations by reducing dependency on others for personal care tasks. This promotes privacy and dignity, a crucial aspect when considering long-term living arrangements that prioritize autonomy.
Reduction in Physical Effort
Bidets can alleviate physical strain too. They minimize twisting or bending movements often required when using traditional cleaning methods. This is particularly beneficial for someone with mobility issues and limited range of motion, strength or coordination.
Cost-Effectiveness & Environmental Impact
- The cost of toilet paper continues to rise so replacing even half could result in substantial savings over time.
- A much greater cost savings is potentially lowering expenses related to caregiver assistance for toileting activities.
- Bidets are also an eco-friendly choice because they reduce TP consumption and lessen the treatment and disposal of toilet paper waste.
Fewer Toilet Clogs
Less toilet paper usage means less likelihood of a clog which is always a welcome benefit.

Considerations for Safe Bidet Use
It’s crucial to read and follow manufacturer instructions for proper bidet cleaning and maintenance. Imagine the surprise of scalding hot or freezing cold water due to a malfunctioning heater.
And cleanliness is non-negotiable. A dirty bidet can introduce germs into sensitive areas like the urinary tract. Those bacteria can spread if they reach the water tank or nozzle, so avoid touching the nozzle to your body and keep it clean.
While research concerning bidets is limited, they’re generally considered safe and effective when used correctly. So, with regular cleaning and proper use, a bidet can be an incredibly helpful hygiene and convenience tool.
Other Bidet Considerations
Ready to take the plunge (pun intended ;))? Before purchasing a bidet consider factors such as:
Available bathroom space - some models require more room than others and most bidets require an electrical outlet to operate
Budget constraints - prices vary widely based on bidet type and features (around $50 and up)
Compatibility with existing plumbing/electrical systems - professional installation may be necessary for a new toilet bidet and the GFCI outlet to operate it
How to Choose the Best Bidet
With numerous options out there, it might feel overwhelming to choose which model best suits your needs. Here are a few suggestions:
- Research top-rated brands such as Brondell, Toto and BioBidet.
- Compare features such as ease-of-use controls versus high-tech extras depending on budget, preferences, and abilities.
- Finally, read user reviews highlighting real-world experiences shared by other customers before making your final choice.
BONUS TIP: A good place to start may be at Costco which carries these brands (mostly online), has a generous return policy and many reviews to help with your buying decision.

5 Tips for Integrating Bidet Toilets into a Senior-Friendly Bathroom
- From personal experience, I can tell you that I haven’t met anyone who didn’t like their bidet once they got over the initial transition to make it part of their daily toileting routine.
- When remodeling, install an electrical outlet (GFCI - ground fault circuit interrupter) near the toilet for future bidet installation. Most bidets are electric. Non-electric bidets, powered by water pressure, usually have fewer features compared to electric versions.
- Bidets and bidet attachments are pretty sleek and modern-looking, so you don’t need to sacrifice bathroom style to upgrade your toilet.
- Make sure to measure your toilet seat carefully before purchasing a bidet attachment. Different models are needed for round vs elongated toilet bowls. Also, there are distinct advantages to elongated bowls, so if you’re considering a bidet toilet combo or are replacing your toilet, consider the best toilet shape for your needs.
- Once you start using your bidet, you’ll be hooked. But you may be wondering what to do while traveling. Pick up a travel bidet to take with you!
Final Thoughts About Bidets & Next Steps
Just one of many ways to add bathroom comfort and convenience, the underutilized bidet can revolutionize your daily routine. We use the toilet more than any other fixture - why not optimize your experience?
While these devices gained fame during the pandemic toilet paper shortage, their enduring presence on Costco shelves signals a trend that's here to stay. Think of a bidet as your personal hygiene assistant, quietly supporting your independence and enhancing your daily life. As we age, maintaining personal care can become challenging, but with a bidet, you have a reliable ally helping you age gracefully.
Curious about other ways to enhance your bathroom spaces? Check out our comprehensive Bathroom Tips Guide filled with insights designed to help create a functional and stylish bathroom that fits your current AND future needs.
